I love my GF so much we ve been like 3 years together, now she felt like she wanna c anthr guy nd same time...

same time she claims that she loves me and cant let me go, and want me to stay sometimes and want me to leave her forever sometimes and she needs a break sometimes ...... she is confused so am i ...... my question is this


if i was ok while she is with that some1 and was ok if they were making out in the next room ( knowing that this some1 is a friend of mine as well or my friend considerable ) so is it too bad what am acting and i should not do that or i should quite with dignity ,, problem is that i love her so much and i don't wanna lose her for any reason ,,,,,,,, is that weak from me


or somehow its ok and thanks in advance if any one would give me an advice ........... PS: she is tellin me to stay around if i wont get mad or nervous for the sake of we be together same time ,,,,,,,, another ps: me and her are makin out and doing full contact while she is talkin to him .........

I love my GF so much we ve been like 3 years together, now she felt like she wanna c anthr guy nd same time...
I'm sorry but I don't often answer questions with bad spelling.
Reply:I don't know about your GF, but YOU sound confused.
Reply:are you high?
Reply:Sounds like you would be depending on each other as long as you don't both get someone else. If you guys are able to be with someone else but stay together at the same time, that's not called love it's called fear of being alone and yes it is being weak. Forget about the word love in that relationship, look for words like dependency and co-dependency and I'm sure your pictures are there. (Joke but you'll probably find yourself in the description)
Reply:Sounds like you both are not ready for a commited to each other relationship yet. It is better to take a break from one another completely and actually have no string attached relationship with other people first and see how it goes from there.....what you are doing if you end up marrying her then you are giving your consent and approval for her conducting adultery....why then stay together....this is not love it is lust.....learn to differentiate the two....for if you love each other why do you want to hurt the other with some stranger....
Reply:Are you retarded?
Reply:Many people like to have a third person in the equation. There is nothing wrong with this, just learn to enjoy it. If it doesn't work out, it never was meant to.