I want to move out after i get a fukll time job, and my parents are threatenign me b/c of that. I'm 23?

They've always been verbally abusive and controlling and say they won't cook for me anymore or let me have the car. so i'll have to do everythign myself. what can i do? i'm scared. will i be ok? i want to move out and doing all i can for that, and will make a full time job too, but they're too much for me. what will happen to me? they took away the car keys and now i have to cook dinner for myslf every night. they've been very domineerign people and never treated me with respect, and i will have to be on my own startying now. what will happen? what can i do?.

I want to move out after i get a fukll time job, and my parents are threatenign me b/c of that. I'm 23?
Sometimes parents are not the best teachers for a positive example on how to help even their own children. You are an adult and they ca not stop you from doing whatever you so choose. I would talk to a Friend and see about getting a place together once you get a job. It is not in your best interest to stay in domineering house where you as an adult are not respected. They are your parents not your God! It is not always easy to go out on your own but the feeling of being self sufficient is well worth the price!
Reply:Just chill for now, get a job and start saving. While in their house you are stuck with them but as soon as you have enough for rent which means first and last months rent usually as well as money for utilities and food , move. Say as little as possible about it if you do not want them to get more upset. You write 'will I be ok?" I think you will be terrific and very very happy. Its just that until you get enough $ you are stuck there.
Reply:They are trying to cut the cord! You're 23! There's nothing verbally abusive or controlling about the examples you listed.
Reply:I'm only 17 and i'm getting ready to move out with my fiance and start our life together.. you'll be okay. maybe you should get a roommate.
Reply:im doing same thing as u but im 16.


just do it its fully worth it brus
Reply:OK - so you are 23 years old. You are an ADULT! Fact of the matter is, you don't need them to cook your dinner every night. You do need to get out and get a full time job, then get on with your own adult life. Get your own car, fix your own meals and don't live under their rules. I imagine that they only want the best of you, but it sounds like their methods of showing it are holding you back from being a productive adult. It is time for you to start making decisions for yourself. Best of luck!
Reply:your 23 grow up get a real job buy a car move out. cook your own meals wash your own underwear. get your own life maybe your parents are so hard on you because you should have been on your own at least 3 years ago. GROW UP!

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