I love some body with whom i c that possibily theres no future.but still want to spent sm quality time wd him?

Actually we cannot go against parents and his fam may resent on his decision of a lv marriage.i love him dearly but feel insecured.what do i do?i cannot leave him on these grounds bcz i lv him.i never say this to him but he understands.i dont want to presurise him for marriage,but cannot htink about marrying sm1 else.i know we have v little time left.v r going to finish wd our studies soon.and he is a v gd son,that is what i like in him d most but in my case i would have ..............means if only he could make his parents understand.my parents kind of ignored me frm d very begning,i remember my childhood days when i saw other children being loved by parents and i was always carrrying out their orders.now that i have found such a wonderful person...............there are other problems.all the love and care that i always longed for as a child,i got from him.m happy that our love is unconditional.just wanted ur suggetions on how to b calm and have some peace of mind.plz suggest.thanx

I love some body with whom i c that possibily theres no future.but still want to spent sm quality time wd him?
of course each one of us need love in our life.But that life full of love must be secure.He was the first person through whom you knew what love is ,but that doesn't mean u must marry him. He is your best friend let him be your best friend.The love you get now from him wouldn't be there after marriage.if you want someone to love and care after your marriage also let him be your best friend. By this way even if something unpredictable happens in ur future this friend will always be with you. afterall friendship is the best thing in this world.
Reply:Just try to understand that waht is more important is your studies. If you do well in your studies and have a good career, you can still get some one who loves you very much. But if you loose your studies, you will be doomed. You can still be friends, if your husband after marriage does not object.
Reply:all the best your thought
Reply:Jindagi ka naam dosti


dosti ka naam zindagi
Reply:similar situation with me..just spend as much time together as you can...you will always have your memories...
Reply:First complete studies, take parents on both side in confidence, have patience ,and go slowly and don't expect any computerised reply from parents. Presently sex appears to prevail on your mind. Keep it aside otherwise you are sure to spoile your career.
Reply:hey dont be soo embarased be happy. is she is in ur frnd..... if yes u cn spend time in parties or sme other place
Reply:thats infatuation, and not love...


just give yourself some time, and surely you can be out of this, if you want to..!!